Saturday 17 November 2012

3 Simple Dating Tips for Women



When it comes to dating, there are no such things as specific rules to follow. More often than not, it might be far better to just go with one's intuition or what your gut instinct tells you. But of course, people differ and as such, they often make decisions in different ways as well. Some take a more logical approach when dating. These people often take their time before making any strong commitments. While on the other hand, you'll find those who simply jump into dating without any 2nd thoughts. There's absolutely nothing wrong with doing things that way, of course. It's simply a matter of preference.. Having said that, there are several things that women ought to keep in mind when it comes to dating. Shall we look at a few of them?

Dating Tips for Women

Tip 1: Don't make yourself too available.

A number of women often forget about this. If you make yourself too available, guys might see you as "easy prey". Don't forget that some men do consider dating as a sport and if you're an easy target, they'll most likely "prey" on you. This isn't how you want things to be. You would want an honest date, where the two of you are actually interested in each other. A date can serve as the stepping stone to a more meaningful relationship and you would want to only meet those who are worth your time. Put simply, make them work for you. No, don't be too cold towards them but at the same time don't say yes instantly. Make it seem that you're interested but not enough to go on a date. If they really like you, they would make an effort towards changing your mind.

Tip 2: Set boundaries beforehand.

Dating can be a very exciting adventure for anyone regardless of how long you've been in "the game". However, it would be best to set certain boundaries for yourself before you go out with a person. This would help you have better control over the situation and at the same time, show the person you're going out with that you're not easy. Your boundaries can be something as simple as no kissing on the first date. You might even want to set a curfew for the two of you. In doing so, you should also be able to assess if your date's intentions are genuine or if he's only doing it because he thinks he can get in your pants. Be firm if you do decide to set boundaries for yourself.

Tip 3: If you're uncomfortable, go on a group date.

Perhaps its because you've only met your date once or twice before so it's making you a little uncomfortable about being alone with him. If this is the case, bring another couple along. These days, such a thing is common practice. Especially if it was a blind-date set up for you by some friends. For both safety and comfort purposes, group dates are always a great idea. So there you have it, three simple dating tips that women should definitely consider.

1 comment:

  1. This is interesting. My experiences with women who aren't comfortable from the beginning always turn out nil. Very enlightening what advice is being given to them nonetheless :)

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